As Christian Perfectionists we have let judgment and condemnation overcome to greatest tool we have...love.  What do any of these things I have mentioned above have to do with love?  Honestly, they don't.  Absolutely none of these things can help you to spread the absolute love of Christ.  Now don't misunderstand me here with things like drinking or cussing.  I believe that we must be a good witness to others and so that could involve not drinking or cussing.  But the biggest problem is that we don't admit to having any at all.  When people walk into the doors of our churches and communities they feel like outcasts.  More importantly, they feel surrounded by people who are being fake.  We are broken people, so we must act like it.